10 Rules for Women Who Are Unlucky in Love

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But he was sexy, smart, and a great cook, so I was totally smitten. Don't immediately nix someone because he drives a Honda, doesn't have an Instagram account, or still owns a flip phone. With Mona Singh aka Jassi?

It makes you question yourself and everything you do. Treasure how incredible you really are. You never knew when it was going to hit but when it did, it always hit every undeserving person but you. Since I was raised in an environment where education was not valued, I forced myself to earn 3 college degrees.

Sophie Monk reveals why she's been so unlucky in love

Especially when it comes to being lucky or unlucky in love. I used to think that luck was like lightning fused with superstition. You never knew when it was going to hit but when it did, it always hit every undeserving person but you. Luck was something that I had no control over. It was finding a penny on the ground, seeing a multiple rainbow, getting a warning instead of a speeding ticket, rolling the dice, getting THAT guy to commit, being bffs with THIS girl, throwing the salt over my shoulder after I spilled it, completely guessing my way through the ACT and getting a very high score, etc. Of all the luck I have wished would strike me, there was nothing I ever wanted more than relational luck. I was very unlucky in love. Complication is your enemy. It makes you question yourself and everything you do. You become this insecure, frantic mouse in a maze that was already rigged from the get-go, to be absent of an exit. Complication is also an emotional defense mechanism that kicks in whenever the fear of having to act takes over. Think about it — if everything is complicated and chaotic, you automatically have a valid license to not take any action despite whatever red and pink flags are right in front of you. As far as desperation goes — when you think and act from a place of desperation, you just get more unlucky. In my life today, I feel very lucky. I just no longer feel out of control or at the mercy of having the luck lightening strike me. And there is is no greater feeling than knowing you are your own shot caller. People ask me how I get so lucky. So in honor of St. Every time that I have felt and labeled myself as unlucky in love, I was really just. Validate and cater to my fears. I have a friend who has been complaining about his weight for years and years. This guy is handsome and amazing at any weight. Being unhappy in your own unhealthiness and destructive patterns is bad enough. If thinking about your relational goals gives you anxiety, you need to simplify. Because I lacked a sense of enoughness, my emotional pacifier was to detail-orient my goals to such an extent, no one was ever good enough. The most inconsequential things would turn me off and red flags would induce ovulation. Today, I just want 3 things: to be happy, to be who contribute to my growth and happiness, and , cut the anchors that weigh me down from the height of my happiness and peace. Without identifying and then SIMPLIFYING my goals, I just kept procrastinating. Who the hell wants to electively embark on a contradictory, complicated goal? It really is that simple. I no longer base my worth on someone handing me scissors. What am I supposed to do with scissors? Put them in my pocket and risk further injury? Scissors are meant to cut — not to put in your pocket so you have a license to feel sorry for yourself or throw back in an attempt to cause pain. With auditions, only one person gets the part — the person who best conforms to the needs and idea that the casting director has of the character. Focus on connecting, never auditioning. When you focus on connecting, you automatically get out of the paranoid, superficially-based mind. You were trying to connect with another human. There was no connection. Off to the city. There is a whole other post I want to write on this but looking back, what really messed up my luck in love was feeling like I had to lead with something. Same pig, different lipstick. These were all just different filters. And just like when you post a photo on Instagram, the goal is to lead with the photo, not the filter. Some people lead with the filters and then become dependent on them to feel like their photo is even post-able. Bottom line: The key to turning your relational luck around is honesty. Lead with honesty, always. Being honest with yourself and others sets. This post needs to be printed out, re-read, absorbed, learned, and loved many, many times over. Thank you for bringing both your brain and your heart into each point! Great words of wisdom. I will be reading this again. I love the portion about connecting and not auditioning. I am guilty of auditioning but I know I also connected. Thank you and you look gorgeous. I hope you had a nice St. I love your posts. You always give me a reality check when I need it. I am so devastated. The man who once promised me the world, looked and acted so happy. How do I get passed this? Not to mention he is the biggest narsisstic emotionally unavailable broken man I have ever met. PMS, at its core, is about relationships — how to better your romantic relationships, friendships, family relationships, and how to better the most significant, exciting and necessary relationship that you will ever have and that you will never be able to live without — the one that you have with yourself.

I can see my focus has been on them and I have forgotton me. That's something I dreamed of for a long time. Do I feel unlucky. Ive been unlucky in love have to behave like a reponsible social. Can you see any of these things. Sameer Soni, better known as the guy who stole the thunder from under Armaan's nose in 'Jassi. Now I am working getting behind the wheel and this gives me enough heart palpitations again. Which is somewhat in limbo with the message of this post I know it has become a bit of a cliche now, but it was a bestseller for a reason. Or they might be lovely people but unwilling to move dust for anyone at all. Yet somehow manage to have another sin mere months later. I went to order for us then to sit in a booth.